The Third Way: Goodbye Either/Or, Hello “And” | #26
Welcome to the myth of either/or. There is a third way. It’s not that other things need 100% of our… Read More »The Third Way: Goodbye Either/Or, Hello “And” | #26
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Burnout: Pacing in The Boom and Bust Cycle | #25
Inspired by the experience of a friend setting herself up to make a lot of different changes all at one… Read More »Burnout: Pacing in The Boom and Bust Cycle | #25
How to Make Time out of Transitions
One of the most common obstacles I hear from reinventors, is that of not having enough time. Now, to some extent,… Read More »How to Make Time out of Transitions
Why Change Is So Damn Hard
When we want to make a change, we essentially want to ‘learn’ something. Learning is considered a “permanent change in… Read More »Why Change Is So Damn Hard
Why Is Gratitude Such A Big Deal In The Self Help Realm?
When it comes to self development advice, we’re bombarded. One thread comments on the importance of setting actionable goals. Another… Read More »Why Is Gratitude Such A Big Deal In The Self Help Realm?
Secret Weapon #2: Systemise Your Sights
Like many driven reinventors, I can’t focus on just one goal for a year or two; each of my goals is a strand I don’t intend to ever ‘finish’ just something to keep levelling up.
How to Improve Your Life Without Self-Discipline
Ever heard of self-care described as self-parenting? It’s kind of true, isn’t it? I don’t currently have children, but… Read More »How to Improve Your Life Without Self-Discipline
Secret Weapon #1: Ready Your Armour
So many reinventions are driven by a need for a fresh start, for being more adult, for a new, different,… Read More »Secret Weapon #1: Ready Your Armour
How To Talk *With* Your Fear
As a fiction writer, conversations with parts-of-myself feel a little less woo and more common than perhaps most people might… Read More »How To Talk *With* Your Fear