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Stop Trying to Find Your “Final Self” (Do This Instead)

In this podcast episode, I talk about how trying on ‘selves’ and using costumes to test out our plans can really help us know what is right for us.

Your life will not look from the outside as it feels on the inside. And that’s how it’s meant to work.

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TIMESTAMPS:

00:20 – A Quote About ‘Trying Out’ Selves
01:01 – The Quote and My Thoughts: “Be fifteen versions of yourself in sixteen weeks and try on selves like blue jeans…”
02:20 – How Often Do You Allow Yourself to Try Something New in Terms of Your Identity?
03:03 – A Quote about Tripping Up On Pebbles
04:14 – Taking “Action” Doesn’t have to be Public
05:22 – We All Set Goals – and how this fits in with the quotes.
06:07 – A Reminder to Try Ideas On (No: Not for your whole life forever)
07:20 – Some Real-World Examples to Try
08:08 – Take Action. Start Now. Try the Jeans On.
08:21 – My Second Point: Let’s Talk About MESS
09:52 – Your Permission Slip to Try on Identities

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1 thought on “Stop Trying to Find Your “Final Self” (Do This Instead)”

  1. This is very solid advice and the mental weight of what the new change will cost in terms of current coping mechanisms is a very interesting point.

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